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My Peru Experience

Monday, January 18th, 2010

Girl in Peru

The bus dropped us off about a quarter mile from the village we were visiting. One of the girls with me had to go to the bathroom and when I inquired about the nearest one our translator pointed to a small wooden shack that was barely wide enough for one person. The girl opted to hold it.

As we made our way down the dusty road my brain was working overtime trying to process the sights around me. Children slowly began peaking through the doorways of their tin shacks. A young boy ran up to us and eagerly pointed at my husband’s baseball cap and in broken English started yelling, “Yankees! Yankees!” The boys in Peru could only dream of an opportunity to ever enter an American baseball stadium.

Once that boy broke the ice we were quickly swarmed by children from all over the village. Boys and girls of all ages grabbed onto our group and excitedly tugged on our arms and our backpacks. The smaller children touched our while skin in curiosity. When they smiled I could see browning and rotted teeth. I could see lice in the hair of some of them.

Our team set up camp in the center of the village and began doing laundry, washing hair, passing out food and teaching adults about basic hygiene like brushing their teeth. The day passed quickly as the children enjoyed small luxuries like the soccer ball we brought them. Their parents sat mesmerized as our team performed a drama and talked about Jesus.

At one point during the day, as I was walking through the village trying to take it all in, a little girl came up to me and latched onto my hand. Startled, I looked down and she smiled up at me as if she had known me all her life. She started chattering away in Spanish and although I couldn’t understand the majority of what she was saying I smiled and nodded and she walked me around and pointed out various places of interest in her village.

The poverty I was exposed to that day overwhelmed me. All day I found myself searching for a private place to sit down and cry but I was so dirty my tears would have quickly turned to mud.

When I was heading back to the bus that afternoon a woman and her teenage daughter came running after me. When I stopped and turned to them they began speaking to me in rapid Spanish. I quickly flagged down one of our translators to interpret for me.

“This woman is asking if you can give her daughter something to remember you by,” she said. “This is the biggest day of her daughter’s life. Nobody may ever come back here and she wants her daughter to remember you.”

A lump grew in my throat as I fought back tears and frantically thought about anything I could possibly give this girl. My backpack had already been emptied hours ago. Suddenly I remembered the sunglasses on my face. I squinted as I slipped them off and handed them to her. Her face lit up like a Christmas tree.

As soon as I got on the bus and made my way to my seat the tears I’d been holding back finally slipped out. Someone behind me said, “I can’t believe you gave her your sunglasses.” All I could think was, I wish I’d given her more.

My trip to Lima, Peru with BRIO Magazine in 2006 was a life changing experience for both the Peruvian people we encountered and the 500+ teenagers we took with us. The trip lasted only two weeks, but its impact is still lingering today.

This summer, Susie Shellenberger and her team (now SUSIE Mag) will be partnering with one of my absolute favorite organizations ever—Compassion International—and taking a team of teenage girls into some of the poorest parts of Guatemala to do ministry there.

If you have a heartfelt desire to change the world you can find out more about how you can join Susie this summer by visiting the trip website. You can also learn more about other ministries that are making a radical difference by checking out this link on my website.

You may not be able to change the entire world. But you can change the world for one person. Start asking God how He would have you change someone else’s life today.

Compassion in a Time of Need

Friday, October 2nd, 2009

African sportImagine if you lost everything you had over night. Intense rains came pouring down washing away every possession you owned, taking your dreams—and maybe even some of your loved ones—with it.

About a month ago that became a reality for many of the people in Burkina Faso (West Africa). Issouf, my sponsor child I told you about on Monday, and his family live there. Although I’m not sure about the status of their frail home, I do know that 150,000 people who lived in extreme poverty to begin with have now lost everything they own.

Fifty-six Compassion centers have been affected. The damage is currently being assessed and Compassion is working hard to meet the needs of those impacted by the floods.

Perhaps your heart was stirred as you read my posts this week about Issouf and Robert, but you aren’t in a position where you feel you can take on the monthly commitment of sponsoring a child or a Leadership Development student.

This is your chance to help. Compassion is now accepting one-time gifts to help meet the needs of those who have been affected by this severe flooding. A single gift of $30 will help one family receive food, emergency supplies and clean water for two weeks.

Moments like this are opportunities to be the hands and feet of Jesus to people who need it most. In Matthew 10:42 Jesus says that those who give even a cup of cold water in His name will rewarded in heaven.

Will you consider giving what you can—even if it’s not a full $30—to help the people of Burkina Faso overcome this devastation? Issouf and many others like him will be grateful for your generosity. Please also join me in praying for the protection and provision of the people in Burkina Faso.

If you have given to Compassion in any way this week as a result of reading this blog series I would love to hear about it—and I would love to send you a thank you gift. Please email me and let me know how God moved in your heart and how you stepped out in faith as a result. Thank you on behalf of the world’s poorest children for your generosity. Your reward in heaven will be great.

Compassionate Leadership

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009

young african man

When our most recent photo of Robert came in the mail something about him looked different. He was a college student in his early twenties so I surmised it probably wasn’t that he had grown a foot between the two photos like Issouf, who is only ten.

“Does Robert look different to you?” I turned to my husband and handed him the photo.

“Yes,” he answered with certainty. But he couldn’t put his finger on it either. Suddenly the reality struck me and I ran to our refrigerator to compare his last photo to the one I was holding in my hands. It confirmed my suspicions.

“Michael,” I said with a wobbly voice. “The difference is that in the new picture Robert is actually smiling.”

Someone like Robert, who has grown up in a slum and gone to bed hungry on more nights than he can count, doesn’t have much to smile about. Friends, relatives and neighbors waste away to nothing in front of his eyes and he wonders if he will be next. It’s hard to dream about the future when you’re wondering where your next meal is going to come from.

In 2006 Michael and I began sponsoring Robert through Compassion’s Leadership Development Program. He is now a student at Kenyatta University studying sociology. In his letters Robert shares his dreams to change the world. He has an interest in politics and hopes to gain a position of influence so he can shape his nation and share Christ with many.

Robert’s faith is rock solid. And he constantly writes to us about prayer meetings and Bible studies he takes part in. Several months ago Michael and I sent Robert an outline of how to read the Bible in one year.

He excitedly wrote back to us saying that he had never read the entire Bible before. But he started using the reading plan and recently read books in the Bible that he had never opened. One of the books he read was Esther.

“Reading this book has taught me that God can place you in a certain position so that you can become a savior of a certain situation,” he wrote, “just as He raised Esther to be queen to save Mordecai and all the Jews from the hands of Haman.”

As a result of reading the book of Esther, Robert felt led to start a Christian club on campus at his university. He has assembled a team to help him, and the club will launch next month.

Robert has gained a position of influence on his campus, and other students will be shown their need for a saving relationship with Christ because of Robert’s boldness.

Once he completes his degree he will also be able to make the kind of income that will allow him to lift his entire family out of poverty. The slum where he grew up will be a distant memory. Someday Robert will likely get married and have children of his own, and to them poverty will be just a word and not a reality.

Sponsoring a leadership development student costs $300 a month, which isn’t a small amount. But if an entire youth group—or college group—joined together, I’m sure that $300 would be raised quicker than you might think.

Most American college students think they’re starving because they have to scrounge for change to make a Taco Bell run—I lived with that belief for four years. I know that the cost of going to college in America is steep, and it can be hard for college students to come up with extra cash.

Right now my husband, Michael, is a student at Biola University, and we have to write out a check each month to cover tuition. But we’ve been faithful to write out a check each month to pay Robert’s tuition too. And God has faithfully provided for us to make both payments every month. He will provide for you if you’re willing to take a step like that too.

Will you approach your youth group or college group this week and ask them to join you in investing in a leader who can make a difference for God’s kingdom and break the cycle of poverty in his or her family?

Having Compassion

Monday, September 28th, 2009

African children

A few weeks ago I was having a rough day. I felt like nothing I was doing was making a difference. I was discouraged. By the time my husband came home from work I was nearly in tears.

He walked in the door holding a green sheet of paper and when he saw me he began reading aloud. Within seconds I knew what he was doing—he was reading a letter from Issouf, one of our sponsor children through Compassion International.

 Issouf wrote to us with excitement—he wanted us to know our prayers had been heard and he passed his primary school exams. Once the summer in Burkina Faso was over, he would be moving on to secondary school. That might not be big news to a child in America, but for Issouf it meant everything. Because school fees are extremely high in most impoverished nations, many children are not able to go to school.

Several years ago Issouf lost his father to AIDS, and he and his younger brother are raised by their mother and grandmother who are only sometimes employed. School is a luxury Issouf is able to take advantage of through Compassion’s child sponsorship program. He regularly writes to us to tell us about his grades and how hard he is working because he knows he is only in school because he has a Compassion sponsor.

I was so proud of him as Michael read me the letter. Then I noticed that something was stapled to the back. It was a photo of Issouf and his mother with some large bags of corn and rice and a few cooking utensils.

In his letter, Issouf went on to thank us for the recent monetary gift we sent. What he wrote next put me in tears:

 “This gift will help us overcome this rainy season hunger.”

Hunger. When I was hungry this afternoon I drove to Subway. But on the other side of the world, when a child goes hungry, he or she goes to bed like that. Yet it doesn’t have to be that way.

Children like Issouf and their families are going to bed full and satisfied because of people just like you. A simple gift of $38 a month is enough to provide food, clothing, medication and education to a child in need. That’s less than $1.25 a day.

For some people that’s one less trip to Starbucks a week. To others, it’s one less meal out. If you’re a teenage girl it might mean taking the money from one babysitting job a month and sending it to the other side of the world. Or it might mean getting three of your friends together so the four of you can contribute $10 each a month to collectively change the life of a little boy or a little girl.

Michael and I began sponsoring Issouf and a college student named Robert (who I will tell you about on Wednesday) in 2006 and the relationships we have built with them through our letters are priceless. The way I see it, I have two African brothers. I hope to meet them in person one day. But even if I don’t, I know that my life is making a difference in theirs each month.

Will you join me in my quest to make a difference in the lives of impoverished children by sponsoring a child through Compassion today?

Book Review: My Hands Came Away Red

Monday, August 24th, 2009

handsred

This summer I’ve had the opportunity to read a lot of books. Some were captivating, others were just OK. One or two left me longing to recapture the time I wasted reading them. Two were intense page turners I couldn’t wait to dive into every night. Today and Wednesday I’m going to review those two books for you, and on Friday I will have this month’s Fan Mail Friday vlog.

If you have a question you would like me to answer, send it to me at fanmailfriday AT beingagirlbooks.com (replace AT with @, this is just my humble attempt to keep the spammers away). I can’t wait to see what you come up with!

One of my favorite reads this summer was My Hands Came Away Red by Lisa McKay. This book follows an adventurous teenage girl named Cori as she spends her summer training in mission trip boot camp and building a church in the outermost parts of Indonesia.

The first few pages give an honest impression of Cori as your typical teen who is heading on this trip to clear her mind and work through how she really feels about her non-Christian boyfriend Scott. At missions boot camp she meets Kyle, a rugged new Christian with an in-your-face attitude and handsome good looks. Immediately she becomes conflicted over her feelings for the two.

Cori instantly bonds with Elissa and Drew, the two girls she shares a tent with, and off the team of six teens goes to the jungle. Although the manual labor required for the trip seems like more than she can bear, Cori truly begins to enjoy her work and the relationships she’s building.

With only hours left in their trip, things go terribly awry and a religious war breaks out between Muslims and Christians, the church Cori and her friends built is burned to the ground and the pastor and his wife are murdered right before their eyes.

Without their team leader, Cori and her five new friends are forced into the jungles of Indonesia to hide in order to survive. The bulk of the book follows the group through the long and dangerous weeks on their own as they battle wild boars, Muslim militants, the effects of malaria and the doubts threatening to rob them of their faith.

The thing that really struck me about this book was the authenticity of its characters. I’ve been involved with teen missions for years, and I love that Lisa McKay accurately captured the different motives these characters had in choosing to go to Indonesia and the inner war many of them had with their faith as they fought their way through an unfamiliar and deadly jungle. Is God still good when you have an innocent pastor’s blood staining your t-shirt?

This is not a novel exclusively for teens. Instead it’s a book for all Christians who sometimes don’t have the ideal motives for doing ministry, have questions that challenge their faith when life doesn’t go as planned and who have seen how quickly a shared experience can create a lifelong bond between a group of believers. Whether you’ve ever ventured to the mission field, or you are just considering doing it one day, My Hands Came Away Red is a must read.

I give this book 5 stars. You can buy it here.