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So You Want to Be a Writer/Speaker?

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

She Speaks

Eight years ago I was an unpublished girl with a dream of writing books and speaking to audiences across the nation. I had no clue about the realities of the publishing industry or the business aspect of speaking. All I knew was that God had put a dream in my heart and I wanted to pursue it with everything I had.

So I signed up and went to a local writers’ conference and pitched an idea I had to an editor from an actual publishing house. Surprisingly, she liked it. A few months later she offered me a contract and became my editor. She introduced me to another author who mentored me and introduced me to her agent. My career took off from there.

Sometimes I wonder where I would be if I never went to that first writer’s conference. I was so scared that I almost backed out multiple times. But that was the experience that God used to set me on the path He had for me. Had I let fear have its way I would have missed out on one of the most exciting adventures of my life.

Because of that, I’m a huge advocate of writers and speakers conferences. I often tell anyone who even dreams of writing and speaking to make whatever sacrifices are necessary to get to a conference near them. 

And conferences aren’t just for beginners. They are for any of us who need some help, improvement or encouragement along the way. For that reason I’m signed up to go to my two favorite conferences this year: Mt. Hermon Christian Writers’ Conference and She Speaks. Now, the registration deadline for Mt. Hermon has passed, so I won’t waste time telling you all about that one.

But I do want to encourage those of you who are thinking about writing and speaking to consider coming out to She Speaks this year. They even have a teen track for those of you who are still in high school but would like to pursue writing and speaking in the future.

This is your chance to be mentored and taught by some of the godliest women I know. Now only will you get a chance to sit down with editors and agents in person and pitch your ideas to them, but you will also get the chance to take classes taught by industry insiders and you will have the opportunity to connect with countless women (and girls) who share your life’s passion.

Like I said, I’ll be there. So check out the conference here. And if you have questions leave them in the comments section and I will answer them as quickly as possible. Last year they ran a contest that allowed teens to win scholarships. If they do that again, I’ll be sure to post a link to how to enter. My friend and former student Sarah won last year and it was an unforgettable experience for her (and we had a good time hanging out).

If this conference won’t work for you financially, keep your eyes and ears open to conferences in your area. Even if you have to spend birthday money or Christmas money do what it takes to go.

You never know. Going could change your life. It changed mine.

UPDATE: There’s a contest going on right now for three scholarships to the 2010 She Speaks conference. You can learn more and enter here.

The Benefits of a Book Club

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

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Tonight a diverse group of women will gather in my living room for appetizers and some serious discussion. It’s not a Bible study group, it’s my book club. Every other month I gather with a group of women—Christians and non-Christians—and discuss books. Or, more accurately, the book we have all recently read.

We started meeting last year around this time as the result of the many conversations I had with my hairstylist, Liz, and my friend, Erica, about what we were currently reading. Our group covered several classics, a few biographies and one contemporary novel last year.  

During that time I’ve found myself challenged, encouraged and even surprised by the things I’ve learned and how much I’ve enjoyed some of the books I would have never picked up on my own. There is something about reading books that puts people on common ground and opens up conversations about world view, life experience and sometimes even the gospel.

Everyone who has been to our book club has invited someone else to come with her the next time. Being in a book club is contagious. And it’s a great way to connect with someone who might not come to church with you, but will happily come to book club.

Now, I know that those of you who are in high school in college already have more reading than you can possibly do. And for many of you, being out one more night a month (or every other month) isn’t really an option.

So, that’s why I wanted to let you know about a new division of Proverbs 31 Ministries called She Reads. It’s an online book club that gives you several books to pick from each season and allows you to participate in online discussions with others who are currently reading along with you.

One book each season is only four books a year (that’s doable, right?). And She Reads purposely picks books that are well written and promote great discussions among Christians and non-Christians. So, if there’s a friend you’re trying to open a dialogue with about Christianity, joining the She Reads book club might be a great way to start that conversation.

Think about it. And, if you have any books you’d recommend for my book club leave your suggestions in the comments section below. We’re always looking for something new to add to our list.

Happy Reading.

She Seeks: Keep the Change

Monday, January 11th, 2010

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Growing up, I was a words person. Numbers didn’t really exist in my world. At the age of sixteen when I got my first job, and my first bank account, I managed to bounce a few checks as the result of living in a numberless world. When I went off to college I stopped bouncing checks, but I still didn’t balance or reconcile my checkbook. I simply remembered to look at my bank statement online before making major purchases. Sound familiar?

By the time I was in my mid-twenties, my dad had done an excellent job at drilling the dangers of debt into my head. I didn’t have a credit card until I was out of college, and even then I carried a zero balance. So I entered adult life debt free, and intended to stay that way. However, I didn’t have a game plan for doing so. With meager savings, a modest income, no budget and expensive taste I was quickly headed for trouble…

To read the rest of this story visit the She Seeks website. Derek, a 25-year-old-finanical coach, will also be available all week to field YOUR questions about money.

Mod Style Lounge: The Hot New Place to Be!

Monday, November 9th, 2009

Portrait Of A Group Of Teenage GirlsMeet Sarah, Kaley and Eden. Together they comprise the writing team at Mod Style Lounge, a hot new website about fashion and modesty written by teen girls for teen girls.

Just like you they’ve grown frustrated with women who climb up on soapboxes and make it seem like style is a sin. Appalled by the idea that fashion has to be forfeited for modesty, these girls banned together to create a place where fashion can be filtered through the lens of modesty but you can still come out looking trendy and like you went shopping somewhere other than your grandma’s closet.

“We want other girls to know they can dress attractively and stylish while still being modest,” Kaley, and eighteen year old senior, says.

“When most people think of dressing modestly they think of long loose dresses and wearing head coverings,” adds Sarah, also an eighteen year old senior, “that kind of modesty isn’t for everyone and definitely isn’t for us! At Mod Style Lounge we take the latest trends and create modest fashion so you can be trendy and respect yourself and others too.”

Eden, a sixteen year old junior, agrees. “Modesty has such a horrible reputation as being boring and void of color and uniqueness. We want to help girls realize you can look fantastic without looking racy.”

In their own search for guidance on how to be modest the girls noticed that there were far more resources promoting a risqué approach to fashion. Almost everything they found on modesty came from a mother figure that just didn’t seem to get where they were coming from.

“Most of the blogs were for adult women written by adult women,” Sarah said. “Being a highschooler myself, I know we teenage girls need guidance in finding cute, modern and modest fashion.”

“Our blog is more relatable,” Eden adds, “because it’s teen girls writing for teen girls. We’re all on the same level without the semi-authoritative adult mentality.”

The girls also understand the pressure to fit in that comes from friends and classmates.

“It’s hard to stand strong in your belief to not wear booty-shorts when in the summertime almost everyone is wearing them,” Kaley adds.

In addition to highlighting fun new fashions, the girls also offer practical tips on making sure you are dressing modestly.

Eden regularly writes about how to maintain a unique and funky style while making sure jeans and shirts aren’t too tight or too low. Sarah incorporates Scripture like 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 to help provide a mental check of whether or not readers are treating their bodies like the temple of the Holy Spirit. And Kaley offers dressing room tips like trying all of your clothes on to make sure they fit properly before buying.

The girls also use videos and pictures to demonstrate that the girls and women we see in magazines aren’t real, they’re airbrushed.

“I think a lot of girls see women in magazines with perfect skin and perfect bodies wearing skimpy clothes and getting lots of attention. They want to look like that but it’s not reality,” Sarah says. “The real woman behind that looks just like you and me. The woman in the magazine is fixed and edited. Confidence is a real issue. It’s so hard for a girl to believe she is truly beautiful and doesn’t have to get attention by dressing that way.”

Eden chimes in. “Modesty shows the respect a girl has for herself, for her guy friends and for those she may meet in her day. It also represents the respect she has for her Heavenly Father and the body He gave her.”

When it comes to modesty and fashion these girls get it. If you are a teenage girl, their blog is a must read. A new post from one of the girls appears every week. If that’s not often enough, all three of them also write for the Proverbs 31 Ministries Rad Revolution blog, and Sarah also writes for Real Teen Faith. In addition to that, all three of them maintain their own personal blogs (click on their names in the first sentence of this post to find them).