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She Speaks Scholarship Giveaway

Friday, April 1st, 2011

She Speaks

I receive emails all the time from women of all ages who want to write and speak but have no clue how to get started. While I’m happy to help women of any age, I have a special place in my heart for the 20-something woman who feels this tug and desire.

At the age of nineteen I sat down at my laptop, alone in my dorm room, and tapped out the following words thinking I was just writing a journal entry:

In a busy, noisy world, a little girl walks onto a dark stage and begins to perform. She wears her pink princess costume with pride.

Will you love me? her actions ask. Will you hold me; will you keep me close to your heart forever?

The pain in her eyes screams at you. And with graceful pirouettes across the stage, she beckons you to choose her, to set her apart from the other performers, and to call her beloved.

She has wounds buried so deeply beneath her costume that she has almost forgotten they are there. But the laughter of her audiences echoes through her mind as she thinks of all the times she has tried and failed.

All she has ever wanted is acceptance, but she has never found it—at least not for long…

She has been missing the Divine Dance because she has been too busy dancing for men and princes to notice the king.

When I finished that night I had no idea God was beginning the process of calling me to write and speak for His glory. Over the course of the next year He took me on a journey that led me (butterflies in my stomach and all) to a writer’s conference where I sat before editors and agents and tried to figure out if the dream God placed in my heart was just my imagination. 

Turns out, it wasn’t. At the age of twenty, a real-life publisher offered me my very first book contract and God and I were off on an exciting adventure I could have never imagined. It’s been a whirlwind ever since.

In all of the conferences I‘ve been to since, one of my absolute favorites is the Proverbs 31 Ministries She Speaks Conference in Concord, NC. If you sense God beginning to tug on your heart and lead you in the direction of writing or speaking for Him, then you MUST attend this conference.

And, as a special treat, I want to let you know that the She Seeks division of Proverbs 31 is giving away a scholarship to one lucky 20-something woman who is willing to step out in faith and enter their contest. You can learn more about that here.

For those of you of any age who want to attend She Speaks you can head over to She Reads and read about they contest they are hosting here.

My story attests to the fact that God doesn’t look at us and see age. Instead, He looks for willingness, faithfulness and availability. Be willing to follow God down the path He is leading you on no matter how crazy it seems.

So You Want to Be a Writer/Speaker?

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

She Speaks

Eight years ago I was an unpublished girl with a dream of writing books and speaking to audiences across the nation. I had no clue about the realities of the publishing industry or the business aspect of speaking. All I knew was that God had put a dream in my heart and I wanted to pursue it with everything I had.

So I signed up and went to a local writers’ conference and pitched an idea I had to an editor from an actual publishing house. Surprisingly, she liked it. A few months later she offered me a contract and became my editor. She introduced me to another author who mentored me and introduced me to her agent. My career took off from there.

Sometimes I wonder where I would be if I never went to that first writer’s conference. I was so scared that I almost backed out multiple times. But that was the experience that God used to set me on the path He had for me. Had I let fear have its way I would have missed out on one of the most exciting adventures of my life.

Because of that, I’m a huge advocate of writers and speakers conferences. I often tell anyone who even dreams of writing and speaking to make whatever sacrifices are necessary to get to a conference near them. 

And conferences aren’t just for beginners. They are for any of us who need some help, improvement or encouragement along the way. For that reason I’m signed up to go to my two favorite conferences this year: Mt. Hermon Christian Writers’ Conference and She Speaks. Now, the registration deadline for Mt. Hermon has passed, so I won’t waste time telling you all about that one.

But I do want to encourage those of you who are thinking about writing and speaking to consider coming out to She Speaks this year. They even have a teen track for those of you who are still in high school but would like to pursue writing and speaking in the future.

This is your chance to be mentored and taught by some of the godliest women I know. Now only will you get a chance to sit down with editors and agents in person and pitch your ideas to them, but you will also get the chance to take classes taught by industry insiders and you will have the opportunity to connect with countless women (and girls) who share your life’s passion.

Like I said, I’ll be there. So check out the conference here. And if you have questions leave them in the comments section and I will answer them as quickly as possible. Last year they ran a contest that allowed teens to win scholarships. If they do that again, I’ll be sure to post a link to how to enter. My friend and former student Sarah won last year and it was an unforgettable experience for her (and we had a good time hanging out).

If this conference won’t work for you financially, keep your eyes and ears open to conferences in your area. Even if you have to spend birthday money or Christmas money do what it takes to go.

You never know. Going could change your life. It changed mine.

UPDATE: There’s a contest going on right now for three scholarships to the 2010 She Speaks conference. You can learn more and enter here.